대인 관계에서 자주 쓰면 좋은 금언들. The short course in human relationship

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대인 관계에서 자주 쓰면 좋은 금언들. The short course in human relationship

 

우리가 사는 동안 다음과 같이 말하면서 대인 관계를 가지면

제가 잘못했습니다. 저의 잘못을 용서해 주세요. (I was wrong, please forgive me). 

당신은 참 잘 했습니다. (You did good job). 

당신의 의견을 듣고 싶습니다. (What is your opinion). 

제가 도와드릴까요. (Can I help you). 

감사합니다. (Thank you). 

“당신 또는 나”라는 말은 될 수 있는 한 쓰지 않는 것이 좋습니다. (You or I). 

출처-모름 

  • 우리가 사는 동안 이런 말을 많이 할수록 보다 건강하고 행복하게 살 수 있습니다. 
  • 잘못했으면 잘못했다고 용서를 구하고 용서를 받는 것이 얼마나 중요한가. 
  • 남이 잘한 것에 대해서 격려와 칭찬을 해 주는 것은 또한 얼마나 좋은가. 
  • 나의 주장만 내세우고 내가 이 세상에서 가장 잘났다고 하는 것보다 남의 의견을 들어보고 배우고 더 잘 하는 삶의 태도를 갖는 것이 또한 얼마나 좋은가 
  • 나만 잘 살고 편안하고 행복하면 된다고 생각하는 사람들보다 남을 위해서 희생하는 사람이 된다면 얼마나 좋은가. 
  • 조그마한 일과 범사에 감사할 줄 아는 사람이 되는 것은 물론이고 남들이 나에게 해 준 일에 관해서 항상 감사할 줄 아는 사람이 되는 것은 얼마나 좋은가. 
  • 나라는 말은 대인관계에서 가능한 한 내세우지 않고 남들을 존중하는 대인관계를 갖고 살면 또한 얼마나 좋은가. 
  • 평상시 아이들이나 성인들이 이런 말을 많이 할뿐만 아니라 말대로 실행하면서 사는 것이 얼마나 좋은가 
  • 여러분 
  • 자녀들도 이런 말들을 평상시 많이 하면서 살도록 가르쳐 주시면 어떨까요. 
  •  저의 주위 사람들은 이렇게 살려고 많이 많이 노력 합니다.
  • 그리고 부모를 존경하라 이웃을 사랑하고 거짓 증거를 하지 말라를 존중하면서 삼니다.

 

Good proverbs to use frequently in interpersonal relationships.

The short course in human relationship If we have interpersonal relationships while we live by saying I was wrong.

  • Please forgive me for my mistake. (I was wrong, please forgive me).
  • You did a great job. (You did good job).
  • I want to know your opinion. (What is your opinion).
  • May I help you. (Can I help you). thank you.
  • (Thank you).
  • Avoid using the word “you or me” whenever possible. (You or I).

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• The more we say these things throughout our lives, the healthier and happier we will be.

• If you have done something wrong, how important it is to ask for forgiveness for doing something wrong and to be forgiven.

• How good it is to encourage and praise others for what they do well.

• How good it is to have an attitude of life to listen, learn and do better than to stand up for yourself and say that I am the best in the world.

• How good it would be to become a person who sacrifices for others rather than those who think that only I can live well and be comfortable and happy.

• How good it is to be grateful for the little things and everything, as well as always be grateful for what others have done for you.

• How good would it be to live in interpersonal relationships that respect others without putting the word “I” as much as possible in interpersonal relationships.

• How good it is for children and adults to live by not only saying these things a lot, but also putting them into practice.

• Everyone

• How about teaching your children to use these words a lot on a daily basis?

• People around me work very hard to live like this.

• And respect your parents. Love your neighbor and respect not to bear false witness.

출처  참조 문헌 Sources and references

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  •  피나 피로 만든 약을 쓸 때 B형 간염에 대한 유의할 사항 Hepatitis B Precaution for using blood or product medicine Precaution for hepatitis B vaccination
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